Your employee engagement scores look good.
Nobody’s raised a complaint.
Your last staff survey was reassuring.
So everything’s fine. Isn’t it?
Perhaps.
Or perhaps your people have become very good at telling you what they think you want to hear.
In my experience, one of the most worrying signs of an unhealthy workplace culture isn’t always an angry employee or a formal grievance.
Sometimes it’s the silence.
And with important changes to UK workplace harassment legislation coming into force on 30 October 2026, that silence deserves more attention than ever.
Because if your people don’t feel comfortable telling you when something’s wrong, how can you possibly know whether you’re getting things right?
Why employee silence should concern every leader
There’s a difference between having a workforce that’s happy and having one that’s learnt to keep quiet.
The difficulty is that, from the boardroom, they can look remarkably similar.
People turn up. Meetings run smoothly. Employees complete surveys. Managers report that everything is going well.
And yet, underneath all that apparent harmony, people may be frustrated, concerned or quietly disengaging.
This isn’t necessarily because leaders aren’t interested in their people’s experiences.
Often, it’s because the mechanisms they’ve put in place to listen aren’t revealing the whole story.
Employees don’t always tell their employers what they really think. Particularly when the feedback is uncomfortable, challenges someone senior or relates to behaviour that has gradually become accepted as normal.
And that’s when silence becomes a business risk.
Here are five warning signs I’d encourage every leadership team to look for.
1. Everyone agrees in meetings. Nobody agrees afterwards.
We’ve all been in meetings where a decision is discussed, everyone nods and the meeting ends with apparent agreement.
Then come the conversations afterwards.
The corridor discussions. The private messages. The quiet admissions that someone doesn’t think the plan will work.
If people feel more comfortable challenging a decision after the meeting than during it, it’s worth asking why.
Perhaps they don’t want to embarrass a colleague. Perhaps the most senior person in the room has already made their preference clear. Or perhaps previous challenges haven’t been particularly well received.
Whatever the reason, the organisation is missing out on valuable information at precisely the moment it could make a difference.
A room full of agreement isn’t necessarily a room full of trust.
Ask yourself: when did someone last openly disagree with a senior leader in your organisation? And what happened next?
2. Your engagement scores look healthy. Your people don’t.
Organisations love a score.
A percentage. A benchmark. A reassuring green arrow showing improvement.
And there’s nothing inherently wrong with that. Employee engagement surveys can provide valuable insight.
But a score is only as useful as the honesty behind it.
An employee might say they’re satisfied with their job while privately feeling exhausted, overlooked or uncomfortable with certain workplace behaviours.
They might give their manager a positive rating because they don’t want to be identified.
Or they might simply choose the safest answer and get on with their day.
The danger comes when leadership treats survey results as the complete picture rather than the beginning of a conversation.
Knowing how people scored their experience isn’t the same as understanding that experience.
Sometimes the most valuable question isn’t ‘How satisfied are you?’
It’s ‘Tell me about the last time something happened at work that made you feel uncomfortable.’
The answer may tell you far more than a number ever could.
3. Nobody challenges the boss anymore.
Some leaders pride themselves on having a harmonious team.
Everyone’s aligned. Decisions are made quickly. There’s very little disagreement.
Sounds ideal.
But is it?
One of the most revealing things about workplace culture is what happens when someone challenges authority.
Are they encouraged to explain their thinking?
Does the leader become defensive?
Is the challenge taken seriously, or quietly labelled as negativity?
People are remarkably good at learning which behaviours are rewarded and which aren’t.
If challenging a decision consistently creates discomfort, employees will eventually stop doing it.
Not because they agree.
Because they’ve decided it isn’t worth it.
And once that happens, leaders risk operating in an environment where the information reaching them has already been carefully edited.
Psychological safety isn’t about everybody being comfortable all the time.
It’s about people feeling able to be honest, particularly when the truth is inconvenient.
4. You keep asking for feedback. Nothing changes.
Here’s something I think organisations underestimate.
People don’t necessarily stop giving honest feedback because they’re frightened.
Sometimes they stop because they’re fed up.
They’ve completed the survey.
They’ve attended the listening session.
They’ve raised the same issue with their manager.
And six months later, nothing appears to have changed.
So when the next survey arrives, they either don’t bother or they give the kind of answers that require the least effort.
Why wouldn’t they?
If asking for feedback becomes an exercise in collecting opinions rather than changing anything, people eventually stop believing in the process.
This is where closing the feedback loop becomes so important.
Tell people what you’ve heard.
Explain what you’re doing about it.
And when something can’t be changed, explain why.
Not every piece of feedback requires an immediate solution. But every genuine concern deserves to be acknowledged and considered.
Trust is built when employees can see that speaking up has a purpose.
Not when another report lands on somebody’s desk.
5. The exit interview is the first honest conversation.
Perhaps the most frustrating warning sign of all.
An employee resigns.
During their exit interview, they explain that they’ve been unhappy for months. They describe problems with their manager, difficulties within the team or behaviours that made them uncomfortable.
And the leadership team is surprised.
‘Why didn’t they say something sooner?’
It’s a reasonable question.
But perhaps the more useful one is: ‘What made them feel they couldn’t?’
By the time somebody decides to leave, the emotional decision has often already been made.
The exit interview simply confirms what the organisation failed to discover earlier.
And while exit interviews can provide useful information, they shouldn’t be the first opportunity employees feel they have to speak honestly.
The real opportunity is to understand people’s experiences while there’s still time to do something about them.
Why October 2026 is an important moment for workplace culture
From 30 October 2026, changes introduced through the Employment Rights Act 2025 will strengthen employers’ responsibilities around workplace harassment.
Employers will be required to take all reasonable steps to prevent sexual harassment, rather than simply reasonable steps. There will also be stronger protections relating to harassment by third parties, including clients and customers.
These changes matter.
And organisations should, of course, be reviewing their policies, training, risk assessments and reporting procedures.
But I’d encourage leaders to look beyond the compliance requirements.
Because a policy is not a culture.
A training session is not a conversation.
And an absence of complaints is not proof that people feel safe.
If employees don’t believe they can raise concerns without negative consequences, even the most comprehensive reporting procedure may fail to reveal what’s really happening.
The question isn’t simply whether your organisation has the right processes.
It’s whether your people trust those processes enough to use them.
Five questions for your next leadership meeting
Rather than commissioning another survey and hoping the results are reassuring, I’d suggest starting with five questions.
- When did someone last openly challenge a senior leader, and how was that challenge received?
- Do our employees have a genuinely safe and confidential way to raise concerns?
- What might people be discussing privately that they’re reluctant to say in meetings?
- Can we point to something meaningful we’ve changed because of employee feedback?
- If we asked our people whether they felt comfortable telling us an uncomfortable truth, what would they actually say?
That final question is particularly important.
Because what leadership believes about the culture and what employees experience aren’t necessarily the same thing.
And sometimes it takes an independent conversation to uncover the difference.
The real test of a listening culture
I’ve long believed that good research isn’t simply about asking more questions.
It’s about getting closer to the truth of people’s experiences.
Understanding not just what they say, but why they say it. What they leave out. What they’ve come to accept as normal. And what they might tell someone who isn’t part of the organisation.
Surveys have their place. So do policies, processes and formal reporting channels.
But they are only part of the picture.
The organisations that build genuinely healthy cultures are those that remain curious about what they don’t know.
They don’t assume that silence means satisfaction.
They don’t confuse agreement with trust.
And they don’t wait for somebody to resign or raise a formal complaint before they start listening.
Because the cost of not listening rarely arrives all at once.
It builds quietly.
In the conversations that never happen.
The challenges that are never raised.
And the people who gradually stop believing that anyone wants to hear what they really think.
So perhaps the most important question for leaders this October isn’t whether your employees are speaking up.
It’s whether you’ve created a culture in which they believe it’s worth doing so.
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